Is your girlfriend much older than you? We’ll tell you how to please her in every way.
Maintaining a romantic relationship with a woman who is many years older than you (or even twice your age) can be an exciting adventure,** **but also a complicated mission. Yes, because while you let yourself be guided by your hormones, they analyze things more and are more adept at controlling their impulses.
And yes, they tend to be the perfect lovers, but face it, they beat you in every way: experience, maturity, and probably (almost certainly) even have more money than you. That’s why we’ve put together a brief guide of steps you should follow to get it right if you’ve found or are looking for the love of a woman much older than you.
Don’t be Intimidated
Security is important. If you act like a teenager with her, she’ll be very lazy. She’s not there to take care of anyone, especially her insecure boyfriend.
Don’t Talk to Her Formally
That’s just a figure of speech. We mean, don’t constantly keep the age difference between you in mind. Act normally, not like you’re with an old aunt or something.
Be Creative
Do you know how many times people have tried to pick her up using Dustin Hoffman’s technique with Mrs. Robinson in the movie The Graduate? Be original; she’s probably constantly receiving “coffee shop” invitations or “how pretty you look” messages on Facebook. If you use the same tricks your competitors think are effective, you’ll be just another one of the crowd and won’t get her attention.
Get to the Point
Since she’s no longer one to waste time, she already knows it all, so don’t treat her like your inexperienced college girlfriend; be direct about your intentions with her.
Get Involved in Her Things
Find out her tastes, where she usually goes out, what movies she likes, etc., and get her attention through that means, looking for ways to connect with her. A woman who already knows what she wants and likes often needs to teach someone everything she knows (and we’re not talking about sex, but about interests and knowledge on a topic). If you’re having trouble imagining it, imagine you’re the male lead in these MILF Pussy videos.
Be Passionate
She will appreciate that someone desires her as much as you do. Showing true passion for her will always be well rewarded (yes, we’re talking about sex here).
Listen to Her and Laugh with Her
In many cases, what they may want is to inject fresh air into their lives, so the last thing you should be is boring with them. If the relationship isn’t secret (don’t rule out her asking for it at first), take her out dancing, to concerts, and, above all, listen to her secrets and what she has to say.
Let Her Pamper You, but Don’t Abuse It
If she treats you well and wants to pamper you or spend money on you, don’t take it the wrong way. Let yourself be carried away by her attention and thoughtfulness, but don’t abuse it either. She probably has better finances than you, but you should also be generous and fair when it comes to paying for outings.
Assume that the Relationship may be Temporary
Let’s not fool you: most relationships where there is a difference of many years end very quickly. Prepare yourself, maybe you’re just a fling for her, and she really just wanted to have a little fun and is looking for a serious relationship with someone her own age. Translated: don’t get attached. Get in shape!
Because why would she be looking for a younger guy, who’s just as ailing and out of shape as her ex-husband or ex-boyfriends her own age? Your youthful vigor and power are traits she counts on.
